So last night at dinner, Joe was telling me about his afternoon at the park with his friend, Matt. Like any other day they have gone to the neighborhood park, there were quite a few kids and parents there. However, unlike the other days, on this particular day, the parents and kids were standing around the storm drain under the little bridge in the middle of the park. Joe said that usually he and Matt 'mind their own business' and don't get in the middle of what people are doing, but he decided to ask one of the parents what was going on. She told Joe that one of the kids crawled into the drain and was stuck, afraid to come out because of spiders. The child had crawled into drain, only afterwards realizing that he had crawled into a space that was too small for an adult and where there were lots of spiders, which he didn't like, and now he couldn't move.So what do you think happened?.....Joe jumped down into the stream bed and layed down on the ground so he could see the boy, about 7 years old, and started talking to him. He found out the boy was afraid of spiders and wouldn't come out. Joe talked to him about Spider Man and how cool he was, never letting on the fact that there were 5 huge daddy-long-leg spiders around him. Joe told us how he clapped his hands around him to make the boy believe he was killing all of the spiders so he could come out. I'm not sure what else he told him, but it was magic enough that he was able to coax the boy out of the very small space!!
Talk about not expecting to hear that over dinner! I can't even begin to say how proud I am of him! Of course his dad is, too, but as a mom....I still get teary thinking of how grateful that mother must have been. I gave him a big hug, and told him not only how proud I was of him, but hoped was really proud of himself, too. He said he was and said that he 'really tried not to be shy'. I'd say he was more than not shy....I'd say he was downright brave!!






